On occasion, we find ourselves in situations where we have to accept that the way we see the world and the way some of our team mates see the world are chalk and cheese.

That I can live with. We just agree to disagree, and move on into areas where - at the very least - we don't care either way.

What can make things much worse, though, is when we don't know that we disagree. We talk. We nod. we think we're seeing eye to eye. But when the time comes to turn talk...